Lately, I have been thinking about how much of life we spend becoming. Becoming more capable. More confident. More successful. More healed. More certain. More like the person we believe we are supposed to be. Even the language of growth often points us toward a future version of ourselves—the person we will be when we have learned more, achieved more, overcome more, or finally figured things out. But what if we have already changed and simply have not paused long enough to no